2025 Housatonic Book Award Winner ● Esquire’s Best Memoirs of 2024 ● As Seen in People Magazine & LA Times ●

2025 Housatonic Book Award Winner ● Esquire’s Best Memoirs of 2024 ● As Seen in People Magazine & LA Times ●

Winner of 2025 Housatonic Book Award for Nonfiction

Esquire’s Best Memoirs of 2024

Featured in People Magazine & the LA Times

A riveting memoir about a daughter’s investigation into the wirings of her loving, unpredictable mother: a woman who lived her life in pursuit of the divine, and who started two big fires, decades apart.

Ten years before Nina was born, her mother lit herself on fire in a dual suicide attempt. During her recovery in the burn-unit, a nurse initiated her into Transcendental Meditation. From that day on, her mother's pain became intertwined with the pursuit of enlightenment.

Growing up, Nina longed for a normal life; instead, she and her brother were at the whims of their mother, who chased ascension up and down the state of California, swapping out spiritual practices as often as apartments. When they finally settled at the foot of a mountain—reputed to be cosmic—in Northern California, Nina hoped life would stabilize. But after another fire, and a tragic fallout, she was forced to confront the shadow side of her mother's mystical narratives. With obsessive dedication, Nina began to knit together the truth that would eventually release her.

In Love Is a Burning Thing, Nina interrogates what happens to those undiagnosed and unseen. This is a transfixing, moving portrait of a mother-daughter relationship that also examines mental health, stigma, poverty, and gender—and the role that spirituality plays within each. Nina’s writing skirts the mystical, untangles it, and ultimately illuminates it with brilliance.

This beautiful memoir about longing for normalcy while being buffeted by the whims of an unstable mother is perfect for fans of Mary Karr or stories about surviving difficult childhoods.
— People
As St. Pierre faces her parent’s mental illness, she also investigates how and why people who lose their place in society often turn to extremes of spirituality, as well as how deep compassion can help them find real peace.
— LA Times
Stark and emotionally raw, [Love is a Burning Thing] becomes increasingly warm and empathetic as Nina uncovers what made Anita the mother she was.
— Apple Books
St. Pierre emerges with a treatise for thinking about not only mental illness and family trauma, but also the ability of belief to alternately empower, embattle, and release. An exhilarating, heart-rending familial portrait.
— Kirkus, *starred review*
This debut memoir is a daughter’s reckoning: a quest to understand her mystery of a mother, an exploration of mysticism and untreated mental illness, and an indictment of the systems that failed their family.
— Esquire, "Best Memoirs of 2024"
This is a beautifully written and often breathtaking examination of a difficult parent-child bond.
— Publisher's Weekly
A kaleidoscopic, illuminating reflection on mental health, poverty, gender, and spirituality.
— Bustle, Most Anticipated Books of Spring 2024
St. Pierre creates a record of her mother’s life to be eternally remembered as that self-determined, free, femme, divine self she was while she was alive.
— Tanaïs, BOMB
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